Thanks for your understanding. I'm going to treat myself to a Venti Latte, a Caramello, and read some cheesy romance fiction all to convince myself that the world really is a perfect place and all this rape angst serves some purpose - to educate the little girls that if we are going to stop the world justifying rape- we gotta stop justifying it ourselves. The in-fighting only makes it easier to get away with it. So, thanks for understanding my criminally long outburst was not aimed at you nor a mean-girl attack for your opinion!

You did post late, but somebody did read it, and appreciated it. I didn't have any desire to nurse my daughters until 8, but it's nice to see that some people don't assume family showers and family bed = perversion.

thanks for your good post on the animals!